The man of my dreams no longer is!
In my last post, I wrote about how my just concluded holiday was something I was so looking forward to, especially owing to the fact that I was going to spend some quality time with my son and catching up with Mr. P, the man I was engaged to until recently!
Ours was a distance relationship which I thought we had dealt with and were dealing with pretty well. We had great aspirations for our future as husband and wife, we had been through a few hurdles and were dealing with some like any other couple does and were utterly committed to each other or so I thought.
He left his email open and I frolicked through his inbox, only to find email exchanges between him and his presently engaged ex-girlfriend declaring their love for each other, how much they miss each other and so on! I did confront him and all he did was deny and keep saying that it wasn’t what I thought it was, trying to make me look like a fool yet the emails clearly spelt out infidelity!! It is at that point that I planned my quick exit, changed my ticket so I could get the earliest flight out, moved out of his apartment and into a hotel until I caught my flight home and of course left him with his ring and banned him from ever communicating.
To say I am heartbroken is an understatement but one thing for sure is that I don’t regret my decision and there is absolutely no way I am looking back. So that’s good riddance to bad shit, quite unfortunate I must say but boy am I glad I discovered this before walking down the aisle!
However, I have some very exciting news which I shall soon share on the blog and also share about my holiday with my little champ!
In my last post, I wrote about how my just concluded holiday was something I was so looking forward to, especially owing to the fact that I was going to spend some quality time with my son and catching up with Mr. P, the man I was engaged to until recently!
Ours was a distance relationship which I thought we had dealt with and were dealing with pretty well. We had great aspirations for our future as husband and wife, we had been through a few hurdles and were dealing with some like any other couple does and were utterly committed to each other or so I thought.
He left his email open and I frolicked through his inbox, only to find email exchanges between him and his presently engaged ex-girlfriend declaring their love for each other, how much they miss each other and so on! I did confront him and all he did was deny and keep saying that it wasn’t what I thought it was, trying to make me look like a fool yet the emails clearly spelt out infidelity!! It is at that point that I planned my quick exit, changed my ticket so I could get the earliest flight out, moved out of his apartment and into a hotel until I caught my flight home and of course left him with his ring and banned him from ever communicating.
To say I am heartbroken is an understatement but one thing for sure is that I don’t regret my decision and there is absolutely no way I am looking back. So that’s good riddance to bad shit, quite unfortunate I must say but boy am I glad I discovered this before walking down the aisle!
However, I have some very exciting news which I shall soon share on the blog and also share about my holiday with my little champ!
